4102 "What are you talking about," THE husband said, turning TO THE counselor, "I don't know why she says things..." 8308 Thank youWhy is it that strangers, THE cashier at THE supermarket AND co-workers receive our thanks every single day, but our spouse rarely hears THE words! Thank your spouse FOR making dinner, washing dishes, AND keeping THE house clean. Thank your partner FOR bringing home a paycheck, buying your favorite desert AND coming home. Again, if we feel weird saying "Thank you FOR bringing home a paycheck," or whatever THE case may be, write it down! BE romantic AND send your spouse an e-card or put a sticky note on THE bathroom mirror. 3034 I love youSay THE words before leaving FOR work AND when you come home. Say "I love you" before hanging up THE phone or after a particularly inspiring conversation. Say it just because. Every marriage needs a daily dose OF these three important words. AND do not worry, saying, "I love you" often is never a bad habit TO have. Even if we are upset with our spouse that day, saying "I love you" may help us forgive them. 4169 You are beautifulOr cute, handsome, sexy - whichever words are appropriate. When we first start dating, we hand OUT compliments daily. After a while we sometimes forget. Maybe we assume that our spouse already knows how we feel, or maybe we do not think they need us TO tell them. Tell them. Women IN particular need TO BE reminded, especially during pregnancy, after giving birth AND on birthdays! Men also need TO BE told they are attractive, though they may not admit it! A compliment a day improves our intimate lives IN ways we can not even imagine. If your spouse is not feeling sexy, why should they want TO make love TO you? 3421 5664 6279 "Do you tell your wife that you love her?" THE counselor asked THE husband. 9122 I am sorry"You forgot TO buy milk," your spouse complains THE second you walk IN THE door. Say I'm sorry. "You didn't clean my shirt. I HAVE nothing TO wear," your partner comments. Say I'm sorry, AND try TO mean it. We do not help anyone by defending ourselves, only our egos benefit. AND avoid THE word "but"! This can kill our apology. TO our lover's ears, "I'm sorry but..." translates TO "I'm not really sorry, AND I am just saying I'm sorry TO allow myself TO give an excuse." 3248 3528 At THE beginning OF our relationships, we send cards describing our love AND send flowers when we are sorry. Over time, not only do we forget TO give our partners small gifts OF affection, but sometimes, we forget TO say how we feel. There are sixteen essential words that we must try TO say TO our loved ones every day or whenever appropriate.
5344 5 Things he wants you TO say IN bed7240 I need youDr. Evil said it best, "Mini-Me, you complete me." We need TO let our spouse know that we not only appreciate them, but we need them. Tell them that we can not imagine our lives without them. We might remember TO mention this on anniversaries or birthdays, but why not let our spouse know every single week? Certainly, we feel that we need our spouse more than once a year! If this is too difficult TO say OUT loud, then send them an email. Write them a note AND slip it into their briefcase, lunch box or purse. Just like women need TO hear they are still attractive, men particularly need TO know their wives depend on them. 6238 "She knows that I love her! I come home every night, don't I?" he answered, " I give her money TO buy anything she wants. I agreed TO come here TO talk, AND ah... I, ah..." 1277 6 Steps TO a sexy massage4293 I understandHow many times has this happened TO us: You are sitting at dinner, AND IN casual conversation, you complain, "Last night, I just did not get enough sleep, I'm SO tired lately." AND your spouse responds, with good intentions, "I am also tired." Or "Well, that is because you stayed up SO late playing on THE computer again." How does this make you feel? Not very good! When our lover comes TO us FOR sympathy, a simple "I understand" can really help. Claiming that we also HAVE THE same problem translates as "So what? I feel THE same way AND I am not complaining!" AND giving advice should BE given only when asked. 7899
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4 Ways TO sweep him off his feet1770 "Yes," THE counselor interjected, "But do you tell your wife 'I love you'?" THE couple looked at each other, THE woman shaking her head. 5468 We must add these 16Â very special words TO our lives. We may BE amazed at how much peace will result from such simple additions TO our vocabulary!4374 2345
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A middle-aged couple sat IN a marriage counselor's office. "I don't understand why we waste our time here; our marriage is already over," THE woman cried, her husband shifting uneasily IN his chair, "My husband, he doesn't love me." 8433 There are times that our partner's comments are untimely, or perhaps, we feel every other word is a critical remark. IN these cases, we should set aside a better time TO discuss THE problem. Right after our spouse presents his or her complaint is not a good time, AND we may start an argument unintentionally. 168 275 9954 "Well," THE husband said, "Why do I HAVE to? Isn't it obvious?" 916 "Because you do not!" she interrupted, "After 15 years, you just do not love me anymore." THE bickering continued, with THE wife claiming her husband NO longer loved her AND THE man continuing TO defend himself. 8031 Obviously, it's not. People need TO hear THE actual words. IN THE beginning OF our relationships, we send cards describing our love AND send flowers when we are sorry. Over time, not only do we forget TO give our partners small gifts OF affection, but sometimes, we forget TO say how we feel. There are sixteen essential words that we must make an effort TO say TO our loved ones every day or whenever appropriate. 6683
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